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Good Girls Go to Heaven, Bad Girls Go Everywhere

Good Girls Go to Heaven, Bad Girls Go Everywhere

There was a time when the title of this book felt like a promise of liberation. I even had a T-shirt with those words on it, which I wore with pride. Later, during an afternoon in an Italian bookstore, I came across this volume and became convinced that I simply had to read it. The writing is fluid and simple, yet it left me with a sense of incompleteness. The book loses itself in a list of precepts, a series of “do this” and “behave… Read More »Good Girls Go to Heaven, Bad Girls Go Everywhere

Show, Don't Tell: How to write vivid descriptions, handle backstory, and describe your characters’ emotions

Show, Don’t Tell: How to write vivid descriptions, handle backstory, and describe your characters’ emotions

This book is an invaluable resource for any writer, regardless of experience level. Exceptionally well-written, well-organised, and highly practical, it offers advice that is easy to understand and implement. Each writing tip is explained clearly and supported by abundant examples and exercises to help you put the concepts into practice. One of the most helpful aspects for me is its potential to be used as a writing checklist, helping you evaluate your work and identify areas for improvement. If you write, this book is a… Read More »Show, Don’t Tell: How to write vivid descriptions, handle backstory, and describe your characters’ emotions

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life

This book has opened my eyes. I firmly believe that words matter. The way we use them shapes our world and our connection with others. The way we speak to others can change the way they feel. We can be violent with our words because words can hurt, but we can also be compassionate with our words, they can heal. In the Italian version, the title of this book is: “Words are windows (or walls)”. The method the author offers is simple but powerful (and… Read More »Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life

Happy Ever After

If you believe that happiness comes from being wealthy, successful, educated, married with children, healthy, etc., then read this book, and your beliefs will be challenged. The author, Paul Dolan, is a Professor of Behavioral Science who explores the concept of happiness by challenging societal norms. I enjoyed this book because it has many thought-provoking chapters that made me reflect a lot and gave me a fresh perspective on our society. It stayed with me long after I finished reading it. Title: Happy Ever After:… Read More »Happy Ever After

When Things Fall Apart

I picked up this book during one of the most difficult periods of my life when my son was in intensive care last summer. The anguish was visceral, and there wasn’t a single part of my body that didn’t ache. Colours seemed to vanish from my surroundings, and everything people said, except for those few who genuinely were there for me, had zero impact. Silently, I was screaming that I wanted it all to stop. So, I resonated with the book’s core concept: in moments… Read More »When Things Fall Apart

The Highly Sensitive Person

The Highly Sensitive Person

This book helps highly sensitive people (HSPs) to honour their traits and take care of themselves in a less sensitive society. Sometimes I felt the author was speaking to me directly; other times, I felt like an observer. This is not bad, as it makes this book thought-provoking. The paragraph about medications for HSPs was very interesting. I am deeply moved by things. I’d hate to miss the intense joy of that. Overall, it helped me ask questions, and so I practised a bit more… Read More »The Highly Sensitive Person

Happiness

Happiness

In a world consumed by the pursuit of material success and external appearances, this book offers a profound exploration of what it truly means to be happy. The author, a Buddhist monk, also known as the happiest person in the world, shares his insights on happiness from a scientific, philosophical, and personal perspective. Understanding that we are neither perfect nor completely happy is not a weakness. Right from the start, Ricard clarifies that this book isn’t strictly about Buddhism, yet the essence of Buddhist teachings… Read More »Happiness

The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People

Unfortunately, we all have a few toxic people in our lives. Sometimes, they’re easy to recognize, while at other times, they manifest subtly, and we only realize how dangerous they are after they’ve hurt us. They leave us with psychological and emotional wounds, and it’s usually more painful when the toxic person is a close family member or within our inner circle. Also, if we are highly sensitive individuals, we can be an easy target because we’re especially vulnerable. We need to learn to recognise… Read More »The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People

Who Moved My Cheese? (by Spencer Johnson)

I’ve come across this book countless times in bookshops. It was so in my face that I could hear it shouting: “Read me! You keep seeing me, yet you keep ignoring me!” Now I feel relieved that I’ve read it, although it didn’t have a significant impact on me. In fact, I could have happily continued living without having read it. This book is about change. It tells a very simple story, illustrating the point that nothing is permanent; things keep changing. The four characters,… Read More »Who Moved My Cheese? (by Spencer Johnson)

Buddhism Plain and Simple (by Steve Hagen)

If you are curious about Buddhism and seeking a simple, accessible introduction to its basic concepts, this book is for you. I really enjoyed reading it and found it insightful. My favourite part was the explanation that there’s no permanent “self”. This really got me thinking about the impermanence of everything around us. Everything changes, even the concept of “I”. Another aspect that I liked about this book was its modern and pragmatic style. While it’s rooted in ancient Buddhist philosophy, it speaks directly to… Read More »Buddhism Plain and Simple (by Steve Hagen)